Stop Mind Reading & Clarify Expectations

41 min


When we don't communicate our expectations and make up our own narratives about why people do what they do, it often wreaks havoc in our relationships.

Featuring: Dave Lomas & Reality SF

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Reality SF is community of people who have been renewed by the Gospel of Jesus and have devoted our lives to following Him. It is our desire to communicate the unchanging truth of the person and work of Jesus Christ in a way that everyone in our city and culture can comprehend.

Located In: San Francisco, California

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