Before the Person

55 min


From the very beginning, Genesis 2:18 tells us that God never intended for us to be alone. We're supposed to find somebody and eventually get married. But there's a way that God wants us to enter into that relationship. We are supposed to be whole. Pastor Mike Todd raises the question: Are you who you need to be before even finding a person? Or are you looking for that person to fill a void in your life?

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

The Myth of Dating

Relationship Goals | Part 3

We unintentionally hurt ourselves by following the wrong order of operations in our dating life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Trapped in Offense

Love Lies | Part 4

When we don't handle moments of offense correctly, it can lead to resentment and bitterness.

Relationship Goals (Pt 2)

Pastors Earl and Oneka McClellan answer challenging questions about sex, dating and marriage.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.

Relationship Goals | Part 3

Learn to improve your relationships by being quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry.

Focused and Fulfilled

Pastor Nicole Smithee teaches us to thrive and not merely survive the single season of life.

Modern Romance | Part 3

Explore four things that marriage was meant for - family, partnership, friends and sex.


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Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

The Revolution of Racism

Four men with different experiences and perspectives speak candidly about racism in America.

Grace for Them?

Grace Like A Flood | Part 7

When we judge people we don't agree with or relate to, we become a poor representation of Jesus.

The Pace Has Changed

Recalculating | Part 1

How do we respond when plans unexpectedly change and God starts taking us in a new direction?

24Ever | Part 6

Worship may be more of a weapon than we think. It doesn't just attract God, it attacks the enemy.  

Racial Reconciliation

Change starts with us. Learn practical steps that can help us work towards racial reconciliation.

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Recalculating | Part 4

When we try to make our own plan, we ignore God and start building out of a place of frustration.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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