Before the Person

55 min


From the very beginning, Genesis 2:18 tells us that God never intended for us to be alone. We're supposed to find somebody and eventually get married. But there's a way that God wants us to enter into that relationship. We are supposed to be whole. Pastor Mike Todd raises the question: Are you who you need to be before even finding a person? Or are you looking for that person to fill a void in your life?

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

The Myth of Dating

Relationship Goals | Part 3

We unintentionally hurt ourselves by following the wrong order of operations in our dating life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Conflict Resolution

Learn 5 elements of healthy communication that can help you navigate difficult conversations.

Mixtape: Love, Sex and Marriage | Part 2

How does the foundation that God designed for our relationships compare to the way of culture?

The Problem with Pineapples

God created sex and intimacy to be a gift, but somewhere along the way, the world distorted it.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.

XO Series | Part 4

XO Series | Part 4

Do you have a plan in place for your marriage rather than relying just on love to maintain it?

Mixtape: Love, Sex and Marriage | Part 4

When you put Jesus at the center of your life, he naturally overflows into your relationships.


More from Michael Todd

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Recalculating Part 3

Recalculating | Part 3

Let's step out of our comfort zone, stop controlling our lives and let God lead us into our calling.

Only God Can Judge Me

Grace Like A Flood | Part 6

We believe in Jesus and pretend we're all better, but some of us are actually still a slave to sin.

Planted and Underfunded

Planted Not Buried | Part 4

Do you give up on the dreams that God put on your heart because you think he won't come through?

24Ever | Part 6

Worship may be more of a weapon than we think. It doesn't just attract God, it attacks the enemy.  

The Missing Link | Part 2

When we're intentional about building friendships the way God designed, it can get messy at times.

Damaged Goods | Part 1

Once we identify the broken and damaged parts of ourselves, we can start the path to healing.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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