Before the Person

55 min


From the very beginning, Genesis 2:18 tells us that God never intended for us to be alone. We're supposed to find somebody and eventually get married. But there's a way that God wants us to enter into that relationship. We are supposed to be whole. Pastor Mike Todd raises the question: Are you who you need to be before even finding a person? Or are you looking for that person to fill a void in your life?

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

The Myth of Dating

Relationship Goals | Part 3

We unintentionally hurt ourselves by following the wrong order of operations in our dating life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Level Up | Part 1

In order to improve our relationships, we have to start with becoming the best version of ourselves.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.

Modern Romance | Part 3

Explore four things that marriage was meant for - family, partnership, friends and sex.

Sex, Life and More

Sex, Life and More

Pastors Judah and Chelsea Smith explore topics like sex, parenting, forgiveness and dating.

Relationship Goals: Kindness

#Relationship Goals | Part 5

Learn how to keep your love alive when the feelings you used to have for someone start to fade away.

XO Series Part 5

XO Series | Part 5

It's time to stop being afraid to talk about sex. After all, God was the one who created it.


More from Michael Todd

Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

The Missing Link | Part 1

Learn how community plays a big part in the four building blocks to finding purpose in life.

Damaged Goods | Part 1

Once we identify the broken and damaged parts of ourselves, we can start the path to healing.

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Recalculating | Part 4

When we try to make our own plan, we ignore God and start building out of a place of frustration.

Only God Can Judge Me

Grace Like A Flood | Part 6

We believe in Jesus and pretend we're all better, but some of us are actually still a slave to sin.

Planted and I Understimated

Planted Not Buried | Part 7

When things take longer than expected and we underestimate the season we're in, frustration sets in.

Make or Break | Part 4

Contrary to what we think, many of the relationship issues we have are a result of our sexual past.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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