Before the Person

55 min


From the very beginning, Genesis 2:18 tells us that God never intended for us to be alone. We're supposed to find somebody and eventually get married. But there's a way that God wants us to enter into that relationship. We are supposed to be whole. Pastor Mike Todd raises the question: Are¬†you who you need to be before even finding a person? Or are you looking for that person to fill a void in your life?

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

The Myth of Dating

Relationship Goals | Part 3

We unintentionally hurt ourselves by following the wrong order of operations in our dating life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Modern Romance | Part 2

Is it possible that the God who designed sex also designed the way for humanity to pursue it?

Unhinged Q&A Panel

JR chats with members the Liberty community to discuss their experiences with love, sex & dating.

Are You Going To Wear That?

Learn how overcome past mindsets that hinder our ability to thrive in our relationships.

Singleness & The Family of God

Jesus's perspective on singleness challenges all of the cultural lies we've been taught since childhood.

Make or Break | Part 2

To avoid failing in our relationships, we must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way.

signs of codependency

Love That Lasts | Part 1

In order to build a healthy and lasting relationship, we need to allow God to fix and complete us.


More from Michael Todd

Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

Evicting Idols

24Ever | Part 5

Do your emotions ride on something other than God? It might be time to evict the idols in your life.

The Revolution of Racism

Four men with different experiences and perspectives speak candidly about racism in America.

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Recalculating | Part 4

When we try to make our own plan, we ignore God and start building out of a place of frustration.

Grace Like A Flood | Part 1

We tend to have a problem judging others, yet we're blind to God's grace for our own shortcomings.

Planted and Underfunded

Planted Not Buried | Part 4

Do you give up on the dreams that God put on your heart because you think he won't come through?

Grace for Them?

Grace Like A Flood | Part 7

When we judge people we don't agree with or relate to, we become a poor representation of Jesus.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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