Before the Person

55 min


From the very beginning, Genesis 2:18 tells us that God never intended for us to be alone. We're supposed to find somebody and eventually get married. But there's a way that God wants us to enter into that relationship. We are supposed to be whole. Pastor Mike Todd raises the question: Are you who you need to be before even finding a person? Or are you looking for that person to fill a void in your life?

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

The Myth of Dating

Relationship Goals | Part 3

We unintentionally hurt ourselves by following the wrong order of operations in our dating life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

All Strings Attached | Part 1

For us to have successful relationships, we need to deal with our past and our father wounds.

Something to Think About

Who should I date? How should I date? When should I date? All this and more in a new series.

Focused and Fulfilled

Pastor Nicole Smithee teaches us to thrive and not merely survive the single season of life.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.

Level Up | Part 2

What does God say about romantic relationships and Christian dating? Learn why His way is better.


More from Michael Todd

Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

Evicting Idols

24Ever | Part 5

Do your emotions ride on something other than God? It might be time to evict the idols in your life.

24Ever | Part 3

We get excited when it comes to receiving presents, yet we fail to respond to God's gift of grace.

The Revolution of Racism

Four men with different experiences and perspectives speak candidly about racism in America.

Planted and Underfunded

Planted Not Buried | Part 4

Do you give up on the dreams that God put on your heart because you think he won't come through?

Damaged Goods | Part 2

What do you do when you’re damaged, but it wasn’t your fault? God will meet us where we're at.

24ever part 2

24Ever | Part 2

Worship transforms our thoughts and is our love expressed to God as a response to His grace.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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