Before the Person

55 min


From the very beginning, Genesis 2:18 tells us that God never intended for us to be alone. We're supposed to find somebody and eventually get married. But there's a way that God wants us to enter into that relationship. We are supposed to be whole. Pastor Mike Todd raises the question: Are you who you need to be before even finding a person? Or are you looking for that person to fill a void in your life?

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

The Myth of Dating

Relationship Goals | Part 3

We unintentionally hurt ourselves by following the wrong order of operations in our dating life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Singleness, Dating & Sex

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson answer frequently asked questions on dating, sex and singleness.

Sacred Sex

Explore how pursuing purity is actually the path that produces the most fulfillment in our lives.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Modern Romance | Part 1

In a world where identity is shaped by sexual experience and autonomy, our vision has been distorted.

Unhinged Q&A Panel

JR chats with members the Liberty community to discuss their experiences with love, sex & dating.

The Hook Up

Swipe left on brokenness, lust, and porn. Swipe right on God-honoring, healthy and happy sex.


More from Michael Todd

Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

Planted Not Buried 5

Planted Not Buried | Part 5

Is your constant need for validation from other people keeping you from your purpose in life?

The Pace Has Changed

Recalculating | Part 1

How do we respond when plans unexpectedly change and God starts taking us in a new direction?

The Empowering Grace of God

Grace Like A Flood | Part 9

Why are we so worried and fearful about everything in life if we are saved by Jesus Christ?

24Ever | Part 1

Most of us think of worship in terms of singing, but it has a much deeper meaning for our lives.

Recalculating Part 3

Recalculating | Part 3

Let's step out of our comfort zone, stop controlling our lives and let God lead us into our calling.

Planted Under Fire

Planted Not Buried | Part 3

When we're under attack, it's not easy to make the right choice, but it's the one we have to make.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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