Break Up or Break Down

46 min


For our relationships to flourish, we need to break destructive thinking patterns. We must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way and start treating love like a trend rather than a one-time commitment. At the end of the day, love is a decision. If you want your relationships to work, looking inwards is the first step to success.

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Make or Break is a multi-part series from Vous Church on love, sex and relationships.

Make or Break | Part 3

Our words have the potential to build up or destroy, spark inspiration or act as fuel in a fight.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to have successful relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Modern Romance | Part 3

Explore four things that marriage was meant for - family, partnership, friends and sex.

How to Handle Heartbreak

Love Lies | Part 3

How do we handle heartbreak? Do we try to push through it alone or pursue God's plan for our life?

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Love That Lasts | Part 1

In order to build a healthy and lasting relationship, we need to allow God to fix and complete us.

Singleness & The Family of God

Jesus's perspective on singleness challenges all of the cultural lies we've been taught since childhood.


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About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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