Break Up or Break Down

46 min


For our relationships to flourish, we need to break destructive thinking patterns. We must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way and start treating love like a trend rather than a one-time commitment. At the end of the day, love is a decision. If you want your relationships to work, looking inwards is the first step to success.

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Make or Break is a multi-part series from Vous Church on love, sex and relationships.

Make or Break | Part 4

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Make or Break | Part 3

Our words have the potential to build up or destroy, spark inspiration or act as fuel in a fight.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.


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About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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