Conflict Resolution

37 min


The question isn’t if conflict happens, it’s what we’re going to do when it happens. While movies might have led us to believe that we should abandon relationships if there is conflict, pastor Bianca Olthoff looks to Song of Psalms to give us practical ways to salvage our relationships through 5 elements of healthy communication.

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Love On The Weekend | Part 2

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Modern Romance | Part 2

Is it possible that the God who designed sex also designed the way for humanity to pursue it?

How to Handle Heartbreak

Love Lies | Part 3

How do we handle heartbreak? Do we try to push through it alone or pursue God's plan for our life?

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Sacred Sex

Explore how pursuing purity is actually the path that produces the most fulfillment in our lives.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.


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Run Your Race

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The Sex Talk

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Who Has A Seat At Your Table?

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About this Pastor & Church

Bianca and Matt Olthoff pastor The Father's House in Orange County. Their church community fosters an inclusive "come as you are" culture that operates under this condition: you belong before you believe what we believe or behave how we behave.

Located In: Orange County

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