Conflict Resolution

37 min


The question isn’t if conflict happens, it’s what we’re going to do when it happens. While movies might have led us to believe that we should abandon relationships if there is conflict, pastor Bianca Olthoff looks to Song of Psalms to give us practical ways to salvage our relationships through 5 elements of healthy communication.

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About this Pastor & Church

Bianca and Matt Olthoff pastor The Father's House in Orange County. Their church community fosters an inclusive "come as you are" culture that operates under this condition: you belong before you believe what we believe or behave how we behave.

Located In: Orange County

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