Conflict Resolution

37 min


The question isn’t if conflict happens, it’s what we’re going to do when it happens. While movies might have led us to believe that we should abandon relationships if there is conflict, pastor Bianca Olthoff looks to Song of Psalms to give us practical ways to salvage our relationships through 5 elements of healthy communication.

More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to have successful relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Mixtape: Love, Sex and Marriage | Part 5

While the world that tells us that sex is just physical, God designed our bodies for so much more.

Mixtape: Love, Sex and Marriage | Part 6

Take some practical steps for establishing a vision for your relationship with the book of Proverbs.

How to Handle Heartbreak

Love Lies | Part 3

How do we handle heartbreak? Do we try to push through it alone or pursue God's plan for our life?

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.

Make or Break | Part 3

Our words have the potential to build up or destroy, spark inspiration or act as fuel in a fight.

All Things Love

Whether you're single or married, this talk will help you tackle all things sex and relationships.


More from Bianca Olthoff

The Sex Talk

The church has been quiet on topic of sex. Let's rewrite the narrative of sex from a biblical context.

Run Your Race

In order to pursue God's calling, we need to throw off everything that entangles us in sin.

XO Series Part 3

XO Series | Part 3

The church has sometimes been quiet on attraction and sexuality, but the truth is it's what God intended.

Pursuit (Sin & Repentance)

Discover the true meaning of "sin" and repentance and how that matches up with our perception.

Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good People?

Why do bad things happen to good people? Find out how the story of Lazarus tackles this question.

Who Has A Seat At Your Table?

In the Parable of the Great Banquet, we learn what it means to give people a seat at the table.


About this Pastor & Church

Bianca and Matt Olthoff pastor The Father's House in Orange County. Their church community fosters an inclusive "come as you are" culture that operates under this condition: you belong before you believe what we believe or behave how we behave.

Located In: Orange County

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