How to Date

45 min


In a culture that's playing more games than ever, Bianca Olthoff breaks down how to date and who to date, giving us practical steps for overcoming the challenges of the modern dating scene.

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Get more practicals on how to approach love, sex & dating by picking from the talks below.

Make or Break | Part 3

Our words have the potential to build up or destroy, spark inspiration or act as fuel in a fight.

The Hook Up

Swipe left on brokenness, lust, and porn. Swipe right on God-honoring, healthy and happy sex.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.

Are You Going To Wear That?

Learn how overcome past mindsets that hinder our ability to thrive in our relationships.

Make or Break | Part 2

To avoid failing in our relationships, we must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way.


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In order to pursue God's calling, we need to throw off everything that entangles us in sin.

Live the Dream

To fulfill our purpose, we need to figure out the difference between God dreams and our dreams.

Pursuit (Sin & Repentance)

Discover the true meaning of "sin" and repentance and how that matches up with our perception.

Who Has A Seat At Your Table?

In the Parable of the Great Banquet, we learn what it means to give people a seat at the table.

The Sex Talk

The church has been quiet on topic of sex. Let's rewrite the narrative of sex from a biblical context.

Conflict Resolution

Learn 5 elements of healthy communication that can help you navigate difficult conversations.


About this Pastor & Church

Bianca and Matt Olthoff pastor The Father's House in Orange County. Their church community fosters an inclusive "come as you are" culture that operates under this condition: you belong before you believe what we believe or behave how we behave.

Located In: Orange County

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