It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.

Singleness, Dating & Sex

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson answer frequently asked questions on dating, sex and singleness.

Are You Going To Wear That?

Learn how overcome past mindsets that hinder our ability to thrive in our relationships.

what makes a man

Act Like Men

Explore what the blueprint of a Godly man looks like and how it compares to cultural standards.

Modern Romance | Part 3

Explore four things that marriage was meant for - family, partnership, friends and sex.

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Love That Lasts | Part 1

In order to build a healthy and lasting relationship, we need to allow God to fix and complete us.


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An Anchor Called Hope | Part 2

We don’t have to drift or waiver or wander, we have Jesus Christ, and he is an anchor for our soul.

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Church: It’s A Group Project | Part 2

We are one in the body of Christ, but miscommunication can easily create division amongst us.

1 John | Part 5

God's commands are not burdens, but rather blessings set up to propel us into our destinies.

Of The Spirit

Acts of the Apostles | Part 1

Jesus gifted us the Holy Spirit to empower us to do all things and help us in our faith journey.

Lost Letters

Lost Letters

What does the content of your life and your actions reveal about your heart and what you consume?

A Freedom Story

The Book Of Romans | Part 2

We don't have to be stuck in shame and pain when Jesus paid the price for guilt on the calvary.


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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