It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Relationship Goals (Pt 2)

Pastors Earl and Oneka McClellan answer challenging questions about sex, dating and marriage.

Singleness, Dating & Sex

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson answer frequently asked questions on dating, sex and singleness.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.

Relationship Goals | Part 3

Learn to improve your relationships by being quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry.

Level Up | Part 3

We all want to be honored and respected. But if we don’t give honor, we may never experience it.

All Strings Attached | Part 1

For us to have successful relationships, we need to deal with our past and our father wounds.


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The Book of Jonah | Part 1

When God calls us to our purpose, we have the opportunity to run towards it or away from it.

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Acts of the Apostles | Part 1

Jesus gifted us the Holy Spirit to empower us to do all things and help us in our faith journey.

3 Words We Love To Forget

The Book of Romans | Part 7

Our promise is to live lives of sacrifice, service & submission. But how often do we follow through?

The Struggle is Real

The Book of Romans | Part 4

When we understand grace, it allows us to go through the process of becoming more Christlike.

An Anchor Called Hope | Part 2

We don’t have to drift or waiver or wander, we have Jesus Christ, and he is an anchor for our soul.

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What Did You Call Me?

Many of us give up when we get turned down. We want the blessing, but we’re unwilling to wait.


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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