It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.

Relationship Goals (Pt 2)

Pastors Earl and Oneka McClellan answer challenging questions about sex, dating and marriage.

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Love That Lasts | Part 2

When we expect childhood fables and love stories to become reality, we run into major disappointment.

Level Up | Part 2

What does God say about romantic relationships and Christian dating? Learn why His way is better.

Make or Break | Part 4

Contrary to what we think, many of the relationship issues we have are a result of our sexual past.

Loveology: Marriage

When we approach our love life the way in which God intended, we start to thrive relationally.


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Make or Break | Part 4

Contrary to what we think, many of the relationship issues we have are a result of our sexual past.

When Life Is Too Loud

Learn how God speaks, how to listen to His voice, and how to make it the loudest voice in your life.

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Acts of the Apostles | Part 6

In order to create change, we need to immerse ourselves in the culture rather than judging from afar.

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God Dream | Part 3

Isolation can either be our doom or our destiny — it all comes down to our perspective.

How to Handle Heartbreak

Love Lies | Part 3

How do we handle heartbreak? Do we try to push through it alone or pursue God's plan for our life?


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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