It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

The Sex Talk

The church has been quiet on topic of sex. Let's rewrite the narrative of sex from a biblical context.

How to Date

Discover practical steps for overcoming a modern dating scene that's filled with playing games.

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Make or Break | Part 4

Contrary to what we think, many of the relationship issues we have are a result of our sexual past.

Focused and Fulfilled

Pastor Nicole Smithee teaches us to thrive and not merely survive the single season of life.


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Loved this message? Continue watching more from VOUS Church.

Life in The Wheelbarrow

When we place our trust in Jesus, he gives us a vision, direction, and constant companionship.

Make or Break | Part 3

Our words have the potential to build up or destroy, spark inspiration or act as fuel in a fight.

A Freedom Story

The Book Of Romans | Part 2

We don't have to be stuck in shame and pain when Jesus paid the price for guilt on the calvary.

miracle prayer

The Miracle in Motion | Part 3

Persistence produces miracles, and when we learn that sometimes “no” is just part of the process.

Are You Ok? | Part 3

Having the right reactions lead to happiness and the wrong reactions lead to anxiety and worry.

1 John | Part 2

How often have we thought about our love as something that can be wasted on the wrong things?


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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