It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Level Up | Part 2

What does God say about romantic relationships and Christian dating? Learn why His way is better.

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Act Like Men

Explore what the blueprint of a Godly man looks like and how it compares to cultural standards.

Are You Going To Wear That?

Learn how overcome past mindsets that hinder our ability to thrive in our relationships.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.

Level Up | Part 3

We all want to be honored and respected. But if we don’t give honor, we may never experience it.

Something to Think About

Who should I date? How should I date? When should I date? All this and more in a new series.


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God Dream | Part 1

How do we keep going in the face of rejection? Learn how God uses it to redirect your life.

The Book of Jonah | Part 2

Praying with precision, passion and purpose, desperation is lifted and destiny comes into view.

The Grateful Road

When we're mindful of God's love and what He has done for us, it encourages to keep walking.

A Tale of Two Tests

In an age where we're told to embrace our desires, fasting is the discipline that strengthens our no.

The Struggle is Real

The Book of Romans | Part 4

When we understand grace, it allows us to go through the process of becoming more Christlike.

An Anchor Called Hope | Part 2

We don’t have to drift or waiver or wander, we have Jesus Christ, and he is an anchor for our soul.


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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