It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

The Hook Up

Swipe left on brokenness, lust, and porn. Swipe right on God-honoring, healthy and happy sex.

signs of codependency

Love That Lasts | Part 1

In order to build a healthy and lasting relationship, we need to allow God to fix and complete us.

Trapped in Offense

Love Lies | Part 4

When we don't handle moments of offense correctly, it can lead to resentment and bitterness.

Make or Break | Part 2

To avoid failing in our relationships, we must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way.

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?


More from VOUS Church

Loved this message? Continue watching more from VOUS Church.

The Book of Jonah | Part 4

Learn why the plans we make for ourselves sometimes fall through on the way to a bigger purpose.

God Dream | Part 4

Is your righteous revenge getting in the way of giving glory to God for the miracle he's provided?

Confidence from Clarity

The Book of Romans | Part 1

How do we get clarity and confidence in life? It starts with our commitment to Jesus.

How to Handle Heartbreak

Love Lies | Part 3

How do we handle heartbreak? Do we try to push through it alone or pursue God's plan for our life?

Get Out

It is through the awareness of God's authority through which we receive all of his blessings.

Jesus | Part 2

Dive deeper into three of Jesus' most bold statements: I am the way, the truth and the life.


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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