It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Something to Think About

Who should I date? How should I date? When should I date? All this and more in a new series.

Singleness & The Family of God

Jesus's perspective on singleness challenges all of the cultural lies we've been taught since childhood.

Make or Break | Part 2

To avoid failing in our relationships, we must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way.

Modern Romance | Part 2

Is it possible that the God who designed sex also designed the way for humanity to pursue it?

Level Up | Part 1

In order to improve our relationships, we have to start with becoming the best version of ourselves.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.


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Loved this message? Continue watching more from VOUS Church.

When Life Is Too Loud

Learn how God speaks, how to listen to His voice, and how to make it the loudest voice in your life.

God With Us

By believing that Jesus is God, we can experience his presence in every moment of our lives.

Church: It’s A Group Project | Part 1

Learn about the unique role we all play in the church and how we glorify God as one united body.

avoid complacency

One More Night With The Frogs

Do you push off the opportunity to change and let toxic issues infect your life?

Friend of Sinners | Part 3

If we don’t perceive Jesus as Lord, we don’t experience the fullness of our relationship with Him

Jesus | Part 7

Though we may be in a season of waiting on God’s promises, it doesn’t have to be a wasted season.


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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