It's Not You, It's Me

39 min


While Jesus’ greatest command for us is to love Him and love others, it also includes loving ourselves. Before we can love others, we must learn to love ourselves. In this message, we're reminded that if we want to build healthy relationships, we have to look inward first.

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Love on the Weekend is a multi-part series on relationships from VOUS Church.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.


More on Love, Sex and Relationships

Learn more about how to handle love, sex and relationships by picking from the sermons below.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.

All Strings Attached | Part 1

For us to have successful relationships, we need to deal with our past and our father wounds.

Something to Think About

Who should I date? How should I date? When should I date? All this and more in a new series.

Singleness, Dating & Sex

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson answer frequently asked questions on dating, sex and singleness.

Make or Break | Part 2

To avoid failing in our relationships, we must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way.

Loveology: Marriage

When we approach our love life the way in which God intended, we start to thrive relationally.


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Friend of Sinners | Part 4

No matter how broken we are, God only concerns himself with building a relationship with us.

The Miracle in Motion | Part 4

Learn how our generosity can build a meaningful legacy that transfers from generation to generation.

Eden to Gethsemane

The Book of Romans | Part 3

Our salvation shatters the bondage of shame and allows us to walk in the freedom of righteousness.

God Dream | Part 1

How do we keep going in the face of rejection? Learn how God uses it to redirect your life.

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Acts of the Apostles | Part 6

In order to create change, we need to immerse ourselves in the culture rather than judging from afar.

Define Success

VOUS Values | Part 3

God doesn't want perfection, he wants us to strive for excellence through our spiritual development.


About this Pastor & Church

Pastors Rich and DawnCheré Wilkerson lead VOUS Church in Miami, Florida. They have a heart to reach our city and beyond with the life transforming message of Jesus. They believe in the next generation and value the wisdom and guidance of those that have gone before us.

Located In: Miami, Florida

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