The Myth of Dating

48 min


We tend to follow the wrong order of operations when it comes to our dating life. This is dangerous, because it has the ability to affect our perception of ourselves, as well as the relationship. In this message, Pastor Mike Todd reveals the proper steps we should take in our dating process that will lead to a successful relationships.

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Modern Romance | Part 1

In a world where identity is shaped by sexual experience and autonomy, our vision has been distorted.

All Strings Attached | Part 1

For us to have successful relationships, we need to deal with our past and our father wounds.

Singleness & The Family of God

Jesus's perspective on singleness challenges all of the cultural lies we've been taught since childhood.

Make or Break | Part 4

Contrary to what we think, many of the relationship issues we have are a result of our sexual past.

Modern Romance | Part 3

Explore four things that marriage was meant for - family, partnership, friends and sex.

How to Handle Heartbreak

Love Lies | Part 3

How do we handle heartbreak? Do we try to push through it alone or pursue God's plan for our life?


More from Michael Todd

Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

Grace Like A Flood | Part 1

We tend to have a problem judging others, yet we're blind to God's grace for our own shortcomings.

Prepared to Plant

Planted Not Buried | Part 2

Understanding what season you're in is the key towards figuring out what your next move will be.

The Missing Link | Part 1

Learn how community plays a big part in the four building blocks to finding purpose in life.

24Ever | Part 3

We get excited when it comes to receiving presents, yet we fail to respond to God's gift of grace.

The Revolution of Racism

Four men with different experiences and perspectives speak candidly about racism in America.

Racial Reconciliation

Change starts with us. Learn practical steps that can help us work towards racial reconciliation.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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