The Myth of Dating

48 min


We tend to follow the wrong order of operations when it comes to our dating life. This is dangerous, because it has the ability to affect our perception of ourselves, as well as the relationship. In this message, Pastor Mike Todd reveals the proper steps we should take in our dating process that will lead to a successful relationships.

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Level Up | Part 1

In order to improve our relationships, we have to start with becoming the best version of ourselves.

All Strings Attached | Part 1

For us to have successful relationships, we need to deal with our past and our father wounds.

Relationship Goals: Kindness

#Relationship Goals | Part 4

When we engage in a "it's all about me" mentality, the quality of our relationships decreases.

signs of codependency

Love That Lasts | Part 1

In order to build a healthy and lasting relationship, we need to allow God to fix and complete us.

Make or Break | Part 1

For our relationships to last, we have to be willing to listen to the other person's perspective.

The Way Of Jesus | Part 5

Learn more about Jesus' view on divorce and gain practical advice no matter your relationship status.


More from Michael Todd

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The Empowering Grace of God

Grace Like A Flood | Part 9

Why are we so worried and fearful about everything in life if we are saved by Jesus Christ?

Make or Break | Part 4

Contrary to what we think, many of the relationship issues we have are a result of our sexual past.

Evicting Idols

24Ever | Part 5

Do your emotions ride on something other than God? It might be time to evict the idols in your life.

Only God Can Judge Me

Grace Like A Flood | Part 6

We believe in Jesus and pretend we're all better, but some of us are actually still a slave to sin.

Planted Under Fire

Planted Not Buried | Part 3

When we're under attack, it's not easy to make the right choice, but it's the one we have to make.

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Recalculating | Part 2

We tend to compare our paths with our people, without even being aware of the season we're in.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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