The Myth of Dating

48 min


We tend to follow the wrong order of operations when it comes to our dating life. This is dangerous, because it has the ability to affect our perception of ourselves, as well as the relationship. In this message, Pastor Mike Todd reveals the proper steps we should take in our dating process that will lead to a successful relationships.

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Loveology: Marriage

When we approach our love life the way in which God intended, we start to thrive relationally.

Love On The Weekend | Part 2

Until we learn what God's definition of love truly looks like, we’ll never be able to stay in love.

Love On The Weekend | Part 1

If we want to love well and build healthy relationships, we first must learn to love ourselves.

Level Up | Part 2

What does God say about romantic relationships and Christian dating? Learn why His way is better.

Make or Break | Part 2

To avoid failing in our relationships, we must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way.

All Strings Attached | Part 1

For us to have successful relationships, we need to deal with our past and our father wounds.


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Planted Not Buried | Part 1

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Planted Not Buried | Part 5

Is your constant need for validation from other people keeping you from your purpose in life?

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About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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