The Myth of Dating

48 min


We tend to follow the wrong order of operations when it comes to our dating life. This is dangerous, because it has the ability to affect our perception of ourselves, as well as the relationship. In this message, Pastor Mike Todd reveals the proper steps we should take in our dating process that will lead to a successful relationships.

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.


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Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

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Act Like Men

Explore what the blueprint of a Godly man looks like and how it compares to cultural standards.

Let's Talk About Sex

Love on the Weekend | Part 3

Learn what God's intention for sex is and the lies that have slowly been distorting His view.

Make or Break | Part 2

To avoid failing in our relationships, we must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way.

Sacred Sex

Explore how pursuing purity is actually the path that produces the most fulfillment in our lives.

Relationship Goals | Part 3

Learn to improve your relationships by being quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry.

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Love That Lasts | Part 1

In order to build a healthy and lasting relationship, we need to allow God to fix and complete us.


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24Ever | Part 3

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Evicting Idols

24Ever | Part 5

Do your emotions ride on something other than God? It might be time to evict the idols in your life.

Damaged Goods | Part 1

Once we identify the broken and damaged parts of ourselves, we can start the path to healing.

Prepared to Plant

Planted Not Buried | Part 2

Understanding what season you're in is the key towards figuring out what your next move will be.

24Ever | Part 4

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About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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