The Myth of Dating

48 min


We tend to follow the wrong order of operations when it comes to our dating life. This is dangerous, because it has the ability to affect our perception of ourselves, as well as the relationship. In this message, Pastor Mike Todd reveals the proper steps we should take in our dating process that will lead to a successful relationships.

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Loveology: Marriage

When we approach our love life the way in which God intended, we start to thrive relationally.

Focused and Fulfilled

Pastor Nicole Smithee teaches us to thrive and not merely survive the single season of life.

What A Man!

This one is for the single ladies! Discover the qualities you should be looking for in a man of God.

Level Up | Part 3

We all want to be honored and respected. But if we don’t give honor, we may never experience it.

Make or Break | Part 3

Our words have the potential to build up or destroy, spark inspiration or act as fuel in a fight.

How to Date

Discover practical steps for overcoming a modern dating scene that's filled with playing games.


More from Michael Todd

Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

Make or Break | Part 4

Contrary to what we think, many of the relationship issues we have are a result of our sexual past.

Grace for the Faithful

Grace Like a Flood | Part 8

Sometimes we feel like giving up when we're doing everything right, but nothing is going our way.

Racial Reconciliation

Change starts with us. Learn practical steps that can help us work towards racial reconciliation.

Planted Not Buried

Planted Not Buried | Part 1

What if God's plan is for us to triumph through this tough season, not save us in the moment?

Planted and I Understimated

Planted Not Buried | Part 7

When things take longer than expected and we underestimate the season we're in, frustration sets in.

Only God Can Judge Me

Grace Like A Flood | Part 6

We believe in Jesus and pretend we're all better, but some of us are actually still a slave to sin.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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