The Myth of Dating

48 min


We tend to follow the wrong order of operations when it comes to our dating life. This is dangerous, because it has the ability to affect our perception of ourselves, as well as the relationship. In this message, Pastor Mike Todd reveals the proper steps we should take in our dating process that will lead to a successful relationships.

Featuring: Michael Todd & Transformation Church

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Relationship Goals is a multi-part series on from Transformation Church on love, sex and relationships.

Does It Need To End

Relationship Goals | Part 8

It may be hard to see in the moment, but how do you know when you need to end a relationship?

Does Sex Own You?

Relationship Goals | Part 7

Our society is the most sexually charged generation yet. Have you actually become a slave to sex?

Sex Container

Relationship Goals | Part 6

Sex is so powerful that God created a container for it so we could experience all of it's blessings.

Panel Discussion

Relationship Goals | Part 5

Hear from people all across the spectrum - single, engaged and married for different lengths of time.

Major Keys to Marriage

Relationship Goals | Part 4

What are the keys to a successful marriage? Learn about the six major needs for both men and women.

Single Not Alone

Relationship Goals | Part 2

How you deal with this season of singleness might just be the most important time of your life.


More on Love, Sex & Relationships

Learn more about how to grow in this area of your life by picking from the sermons below.

Mixtape: Love, Sex and Marriage | Part 1

Unmet expectations, out-of-control emotions and lack of responsibility create toxic relationships.

Mixtape: Love, Sex and Marriage (Part 3)

We all are searching for the "right person", but the truth is, they won't make our problems go away.

Modern Romance | Part 2

Is it possible that the God who designed sex also designed the way for humanity to pursue it?

Relationship Goals: Kindness

#Relationship Goals | Part 4

When we engage in a "it's all about me" mentality, the quality of our relationships decreases.

Mixtape: Love, Sex and Marriage | Part 6

Take some practical steps for establishing a vision for your relationship with the book of Proverbs.

XO Series Part 5

XO Series | Part 5

It's time to stop being afraid to talk about sex. After all, God was the one who created it.


More from Michael Todd

Loved this message? Continue watching more from Michael Todd & Transformation Church.

Only God Can Judge Me

Grace Like A Flood | Part 6

We believe in Jesus and pretend we're all better, but some of us are actually still a slave to sin.

Damaged Goods | Part 1

Once we identify the broken and damaged parts of ourselves, we can start the path to healing.

Prepared to Plant

Planted Not Buried | Part 2

Understanding what season you're in is the key towards figuring out what your next move will be.

Evicting Idols

24Ever | Part 5

Do your emotions ride on something other than God? It might be time to evict the idols in your life.

24Ever | Part 1

Most of us think of worship in terms of singing, but it has a much deeper meaning for our lives.

Recalculating Part 3

Recalculating | Part 3

Let's step out of our comfort zone, stop controlling our lives and let God lead us into our calling.


About this Pastor & Church

Since February of 2015, Pastors Michael and Natalie Todd have lead Transformation Church, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Their personal philosophy and driving passion is re-presenting God to the lost and found for transformation in Christ.

Located In: Tulsa, Oklahoma

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